Personal Growth

I’ve sat a lot with this recently. I used to be huge on the giving spectrum until I started noticing the patterns where it wasn’t reciprocated. Do you know what I did? I started withholding. In the time being, I had to learn how to rebrand people pleasing tendencies. Was I giving because I wanted their approval or was I giving because my cup was full and I felt happy to? Hearing this may sound harsh, but there was a time I reduced my efforts and didn’t want to replenish them